Relationships are breaking and divorce rates are rapidly increasing. The major reason behind this is that people don’t treat the opposite sex like he can be someone’s husband or wife until they get married. Some people believe in arranged marriage, some because of their past relationships don’t even want to get married. They get scared of marrying someone but want to keep all the benefits of the marriage.
Anyone can marry a wrong person but no one wants to. So what can you do to marry the right person in first place? One must know what real courtship actually means…
Courtship doesn’t mean that you two just hang around, nice treat each other and have sex after marriage. It is a lot more than that. Courtship is generational, it continues generation to generation. It is about asking God whom you are meant to spend your life with. It is about trusting God that he will help to find the right partner for you.
This may sound like some fairy tale but agree with it or not us all love fairy tales. Here are some helpful ways for courting:
Openly communicate: talk with love interest directly and honestly. Learn to know each other properly instead of feeling anxious.
Let go the dating rules: forget to play childish games, be genuine. Call the person if you want to. Ask him/her out if you want to. Tell them you like them if you do!
Disregard typical gender roles: what is the point that only one person is making all the efforts. Finding a balance is very important. Be your true self and bring the equality between you two.
Indulge in the process: the process may take time as there is no shortcut. You have to be patient and believe in God.